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Last night, while meditating with my Muse headband, I encountered one of those Dark Behaviorist Patterns that are, to my thinking, one of the worst problems we have with apps and our networked world today.

The Muse Headband is gamified. I have no problem with gamification in general; I think it's an excellent documentation pattern, and done well is one of the best ways to get people to use your product effectively. But "done well" means done with the user's interests in mind; "done well" means executed with kindness and compassion for the user's time and patience.

The gamification pattern for Muse is straightforward. While using it, it categorizes your brain state into one of four ranges: agitated, neutral, calm, and deep calm. There's a main score, and for that score it gives you 1 point for every second you're "neutral" and 3 points for every second you're "calm." It also has a score for how many times you transition out of "agitated," and another for how much time you spend in "deep calm," but that main score is the big deal. Depending on various scores, you get badges, like any gamified environment.

Since I usually meditate for 25 minutes (booking a half hour, with setup and teardown), my theoretical high score is 25⨯60⨯3 or 4500. Yesterday I hit 4400.

I got three familiar badges: "Marathon" (meditated for more than 20 minutes, which I get pretty much every day), "Lucidity," (calm for more than 20 minutes), "Birds of Eden" (persistent deep calm). I've gotten other badges, including the one labeled "Perfect Timing," which is awarded when you meditate for 10 minutes or more, but experience less than 60 seconds of "calm," and "Wanderlust," which happens when your mind starts to become agitated late in the session, indicating boredom and a lack of focus.

But I got one unfamiliar badge: "Precision Shooter." I looked up the description: "Your score was exactly 4400." I went and looked back in my history; I'd received this score once before, for a score of 2900. "Precision Shooter" is awarded when your score is evenly divisible by 100.

That's not just a terrible metric, it's a psychologically manipulative one. Nobody's going to train their brain for that kind of precision. It's not just a meaningless badge, it's one that's awarded out of sheer luck.

When psychology students do the rat behavior reinforcement experiment, they divide the rats into three groups: continuous reinforcement, fixed ratio reinforcement, and variable reinforcement. The first get a food pellet every time they press a button; the second get a food pellet every fifth press; the third set get a food pellet after a random number of presses. It could be two in a row, or it could take fifteen or more presses until the food comes out.

Then the researcher turn off the levers.

The first group of rats gives up pretty quickly. It worked, and now it doesn't. The second group gives up after a little while longer. The third group never gives up. Never. The behavior pattern lingers for months. The rats' brains have become addicted to the reward system itself and they'll keep slamming that lever even when they're not hungry.

"Precision Shooter" is a variable reinforcement mechanism. It only happens at random intervals because you meditate. It's meaningless in terms of one's progress (whatever "progress" means to Muse), but it is a form of manipulation meant to make you to come back and try again. And because it's tied to an observable metric, it feels like an "achievement," so the initial hook is powerful, even if that metric isn't one over which you can exert any actual control.

"Precision Shooter" is a Dark Behaviorist Pattern, and Muse should remove it from the product.
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One thing you might encounter in Buddhist teaching is a lesson entitled The Ten Distractions. These distractions are experiences you will probably have during your meditation periods that are generally considered pleasurable or valuable, but are not the aim of Buddhism and so are considered "distractions." These distractions are:


  1. Illumination that meditation is effective

  2. Understanding how your mind works

  3. Joy

  4. Tranquility

  5. Physical pleasure

  6. Faith and confidence

  7. Energy and vitality

  8. Concentration and focus

  9. Equanimity

  10. Attachment


Only the last one is considered "bad" by Buddhists, because it's the anchor with which the others ensnare you. Once you become attached to any of these states, you're going to fail in your goal of reaching the state of Insight and Enlightenment which is the hallmark of Buddhist teaching.

I have this sneaking suspicion that Buddhism beyond Equanimity is a case of sunk cost, that is, you've spent so much time and energy in meditation, literally exploiting whatever neuroplasticity we have to grow new brain matter dedicated to the task of repeating and realizing the meditative experience, that once you've gotten that far you may as go the whole way, even if at some point you start to lose touch with what it means to be human in the first place. The Buddhist Insight stage seems so off-the-charts compared to the attachments that I have to wonder if it really has value. Who assigns that value? Well, other Buddhists who have spent years chasing it, a self-referential loop of sunk costs.

The Dalai Lama has a well-established place in the popular imagination, but I have to wonder if his grip on all of reality is, well, as strong as mine. His wokeness seems to leap entirely over addressing existing injustices and tackling iniquitous hierarchies into a pithy mass of "If we all thought like me, none of this would be a problem" aphorisms.

It's a common affliction, one that is either pathetic or unbelievably dangerous, depending upon how much power the believer has.
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I had a strange meditation this morning. I woke up before my alarm went off, and good thing too as I'd forgotten to set it correctly. So I sat down with my Muse headband and decided to try a repeat experiment.

I've become suspicious of what the Muse considers "calm." When I'm particularly stressed, I can hear the tension in my left ear; the muscles in my jaw clench and twitch, creating a strange, deep basso rumble. This morning I heard that all throughout my meditation session, which didn't translate to me as "calm" at all.

Worse, I've discovered that the easiest way to cheat the Muse is to set up a dialogue in my imagination between two characters from my stories. Not even a particularly interesting dialogue, just a humdrum, domestic conversation. Imagining the setting, the characters who have been with me for thirty-five years, the ongoing reassurance that they've always been there for me and will always be there for me, drops the Muse's responses down to the "very calm" setting.

It was a twelve minute session with the rumbling going on in my left ear, and in my head my characters have a mundane, domestic chat, with no focus at all on my breathing, or my body, or my surroundings– and yet Muse insists I was "very calm" for almost the entire session.

I'm always suspicious of a computer-mediated anything. I'll try the Muse for a little while longer and see if it gets me anywhere, but I'm starting to suspect that, as I wrote earlier, it's going in a different direction from where my meditations were taking me when I started. Not necessarily headed to a bad place, but still, a different place.
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Awhile ago, I explained the various kinds of mediation that I engage in (mostly anapanasati is my anchor meditation, with Stoic versions of the prospective and retrospective type, and one kind that doesn't have a name but I call it "default", after the brain's default mode).




I've also recently begun trying out the Muse Headband, a "brain listening" device with a small array of EEG sensors that can detect some brain activity and report on it. The one thing I've discovered is that whatever the Muse is listening for, it's not listening for any of the above.

That session above, from this morning's meditation, is so far my "high score" meditation, but that's probably because I added two minutes to my sessions; about a month ago, I averaged a slightly better one. Today I had "40 moments of extremely stable brainwave activity, with one stability period lasting over five minutes" during a twelve-minute session; a month ago, I managed 44 moments in a ten-minute session.

Some people have had exceptional success using the Muse. I'd like to say I have, too, but so far the results have been mixed. That may be because I've been working off Buddhist and Stoic1 teachings, and the Muse is going for a very different mindset than traditional meditation techniques from either of those traditions. The Muse is using biofeedback to try and teach you how to have a mental mechanism for exceptional calm and focus.

If you're into Buddhism hard-core, the Muse is a bad tool because it's deliberately designed to encourage you to fall into several of The Ten Distractions of Insight. The Ten Distractions are: Illumination, Knowledge, Joy, Tranquility, Pleasure, Confidence, Vitality, Focus, and Composure, and Attachment. Muse is designed to encourage a mindset optimized for joy, tranquility, focus and pleasure. As Buddhist teacher Upasaka Cuadasa says, nine of the ten distractions aren't bad, but if the tenth takes hold, that is, if you become attached to any of them, you'll fail in your journey to bodhisattva. The distractions are called that because they distract you from your journey toward Ultimate Insight.

On the other hand, just a little meditation, even the kinds encouraged by Muse, makes people realize their jobs are probably bullshit because the work doesn't lead to any of those states, and once you've had a taste of them in your mature state you start looking for better things to do with your life than fill out another form, write another client letter, code another login form, or any of the thousands of other things that don't make us pro-social creatures.



1 I'm extremely annoyed and disappointed that ever since William Irvine published his wonderful book, A Guide to the Good Life, Stoicism, like "mindfulness," has started to morph into one of those warning signs of impending assholery when espoused by a twenty-something tech-bro.
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For my birthday, I bought myself a new laptop and a couple of fun peripherals. The peripherals were mostly to round out and survive the coming wireless future, when there are no more USB connectors on our devices and everything has to talk over Bluetooth. One of the toys I bought myself was a Muse brainwave-sensing headband.

I have no idea if this thing is even vaguely legit. I've seen quite a few articles about how the sensors are legit, if inaccurate, and they only show a mash-up of a variety of electrical signals whizzing past at any given moment, but it's hard to know.

In any event, there are a few things I've noticed. The first is that the left temporal lobe sensor is always the hardest to calibrate. That's hardly surprising since my left temporal lobe is where the ADHD "storm" is happening; on the sorts of scans that track glucose consumption, that corner of my brain is constantly lit up like Iron Maiden night at the laser lightshow.

Since I have ADHD I take Dextrostat, which is basically a medical amphetamine. Omaha likes it when I take my meds because she says I'm calmer and easier to track when I'm on it— which is actually a better sign that it's really ADHD than any other test, since people without ADHD get jittery and easily distractable when on Dex.

So I tried an experiment. I tried using the Muse with, and without, the Dex. The Muse claims to track "calmness," the time when your brain wave levels are low and relatively harmonious. They rate your brain as "active," "neutral," or "calm," and give you a score: the number of seconds you spend "neutral" plus 3⨯ seconds spend "calm." While not on Dex, in a ten minute session I scored 385 points and wasn't "calm" enough to get a bonus; while on Dex, I scored 935 points and 5 times was "calm" for long enough to get a bonus.

That's just a pair of data points and therefore totally anecdotal. (The plural of anecdote, by the way, is data.) But it was fun, and kinda a neat way to play with the toy.
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"You must know what the breath is," the Buddha said. But what the breath is, is very different in our century than it was in his.

Buddhist meditation begins with learning how to breathe. Apparently, old Siddhartha Buddha could do this readily and without effort, but most people have to spend some time paying attention to all the little things that go into breathing, all the sensations that we've learned to take for granted, to ignore, to accept as mere signs that we're still breathing.

Breathing is one of the most remarkable of all our biological systems. It has to be fast; one breath is barely in our lungs for half a second, and in that time we have to swap out the oxygen for carbon dioxide just to keep living. It's under our control when we want, and it goes on automatically when we're not paying attention to it. Regulating it gives us expressive power in speech and the capability to dive deep underwater. Buddhism wants you to pay attention to its sensations while not trying to exert control over it— a fairly difficult exercise that can take weeks or months for most meditation practioners to master.

But in the Buddha's time, all that was known about breathing was about its sensations and our impressions of them. Prior to the discipline of microbiology, all we knew about breathing was the animal understanding we had of its necessity, our limited control over it, and that if we stopped bad things happened. It's that centrality to our lives, and the sheer amount of brain structure turned over to managing the demands of our bodies' oxygen levels while at the same time letting us control it to swim and speak, that makes breathing exercises and meditating on breathing so effective.

When I meditate, I have to avoid the mantra "Know what the breath is" because if I do that my hyperactive brain goes down a rabbithole of biology and neurology, because breathing "is" all these extra things we understand now about the low-level processes.
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Someone asked, "What are the other meditations you do?"

Okay, so, here's the most important thing to know: I firmly believe that what you do with your first hour dictates who you will be that day. If I spend that first morning just absorbing social media and miscellany, I'm pretty much a distracted basket case for the rest of the day. If, instead, I set up my morning correctly, I'm going to be productive and happy. The next two meditation practices (they involve more than just sitting and thinking) are part of avoiding the distracted basket case mode:

The Prospective Meditation


My first 30 minutes are spent getting up, dressed, feeding the cats and making breakfast. That includes actually cooking over a stove most mornings, grinding coffee by hand, scrambling eggs and chopping vegetables. I find the physical act of cooking food from raw ingredients very grounding. 15 minutes are then set with what Stoics call the Prospective Meditation. I leave my to-do notebook with my schedule open on the kitchen table when I go to bed. I read it carefully, and then I take a deep breath and calm myself, rehearsing the day ahead in whole, always keeping in mind that the day may have other plans. I contemplate what could go wrong, and rehearse how to deal with hindrances and roadblocks. The last 15 minutes are spent making sure the kid is up and moving before we both head out the door.

This is one I always try to do. It's not always feasible (rarely, Omaha wakes up and she often thinks I'm too dedicated to my rituals), but I do manage almost every weekday.

The Retrospective Meditation


Usually, this Stoic meditation happens around 8:30pm, which means that many nights it may get pushed later as my parental and familiar duties require me to be out and about. I sometimes have to plan around my schedule and break this in two.

The first part of the meditation involves looking through the same notebook and asking myself, What did I accomplish?, What went amiss, and can I correct it?, and What is left unfinished? This often involves going through the day three times, examining the calendar and notes for every detail, trying to sand down the rough edges.

The second part involves writing down tomorrow's schedule, deliberately calendaring in time-blocks to accomplish specific tasks.

The Default Meditation


Okay, this one's a little weird, because literally no one else I know does this. Every meditation has a setting: The Prospective and Retrospective meditations are from Stoicism, and I do them at the dining room table, where I wind down and then set up my day. The breath meditation is the first Samatha meditation of traditional Buddhism, and I do it on a zafu.

The "default meditation" is done in a quiet room with a comfortable chair. I clip a voice recorder to my shirt (my trusty Olympus VP-10) with voice activated mode on. I set a timer for 20 minutes and then I just... think.

The default mode is what your brain is doing when you're not concentrating on something. It's about daydreaming. I find when I'm doing Samatha that many of my distracting thoughts are about accomplishing things and dealing with the undone. Default Meditation is basically an excuse to think about those things, get them into the tape recorder, and process them later, getting them out of my head while accessing them in the order and manner my brain prefers.

The process of giving voice to the thoughts, and then soon thereafter dumping the voice recorder to my laptop and writing down what is actionable or noteworthy, leads to my brain being "emptied" and ready for other things to think about. This one is usually a morning exercise, before I've started dumping too many outsider thoughts (Twitter, Facebook, the radio, whatever) into my head.

Others


In various religious traditions, there are the contemplative meditations, such as Vispassana, Lamrim, and for Christians the Twelve Stages of the Cross.

Stoics practice the Meditation of Tragedy, which is basically staging the worst thing that could happen in your mind and rehearsing how you would react to it meaningfully. Buddhists have a similar meditation. The Lamrim Buddhist tradition spends one week on this sort of thing, then a week on compassion, then a week on wisdom, and then they start over. Vispassana is an exploration of the senses that teaches us to both appreciate them and to understand that they're transient and impermanent. Stoics have the Meditation of Loss, which is similar to Vispassana, in that it teaches us to appreciate the sensations we're experiencing now, the love and affection of our families, the joy in our lives, because fate could take those from us, or us from them, at any moment.

I don't do any of those with any seriousness. Just the three basics, plus the occasional Default Meditation when my brain starts to feel really full.
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My morning meditation was a little weird today.

Okay, so, probably more than you want to know, but I have three or four different kinds of meditation that I do, not all of them on the same day, although if I do manage three out of four then it's a very good day as far as I'm concerned.

The longest one is a straight-up breath meditation as practiced by just about every spiritual tradition in the world. It's a self-discipline exercise, meant to strengthen the executive network (the part of your brain that helps you concentrate on a given task) and to reinforce the role of mindfulness and attention in your life. What you pay attention to is what gets done and what gets valued. Breath meditation trains you to pay attention to paying attention, which is actually a very useful skill. Various traditions build off that skill, but it's definitely the first skill, and everyone desires it.

Today, due to a scheduling issue, I took my ADHD medication just minutes before going into the breath meditation— and could tell exactly when the medication took hold.

So, my ADHD is the result of an overactive left temporal lobe of my brain. It puts out a lot of noise that constantly threatens to distract me. The noise is about other things I like to do, like write and code and such, but it's still noise that distracts me from what I'm doing. Everyone has a noisy brain; I'm just much more susceptible to being distracted by it than most people because it's so much more noisy than average.

Most ADHD medications are stimulants. They work not by quieting the noisy part, but by giving the rest of the brain a bit of a kick that enables it to overwhelm and mask the noisemaker. That's exactly what it felt like; within seconds my usually drifty mind went from a noisy place to much quieter. I still drifted from time to time in concentrating on my breath, but it was for much shorter periods of time and I was much more capable of dragging my thoughts back to the task at hand, building up my mindfulness.

It felt a lot like I was cheating. "Doping for meditation" sounds ridiculous, and I should probably figure out just what the differences are. But it was such a profoundly notable effect, it might be worth investigating further.
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In some lines of Buddhism, the jhanas are emotional events that a practicing meditator may experience along the way toward enlightenment. The usual description of them is in stages or, as we might say today, leveling up: you experience "The first jhana," and then the second, and so forth, until you attain the fourth, which most meditators agree is both the most interesting and the most dangerous— people can get "stuck" in the fourth and become highly delusional, convinced that they've attained mastery of themselves and maybe have found all manner of psychic powers or whatnot.

I'm suspicious of this description, because I'm suspicious of Maria Montessori and Elizabeth Kubler-Ross. Montessori taught that children go through three distinct and concrete stages, and while there's some overlap these stages more or less coincide to seven years of a child's life: 0 to 7, 7 to 14, 14 to 21, each of which is characterized by a set of concrete traits that a child is developing, and the choice of which traits gets trained and emphasized is the responsibility of the parents and teachers. Kubler-Ross taught the five stages of grief, and claimed that the dying patient went through them in a fairly linear fashion. (It was only afterward that we started applying the stages of grief to the survivors, and then to anyone experiencing the aftershock of some disaster other than the death of a loved one.)

Kubler-Ross's prescription is nonsense unsupported by the evidence. Montessori's stages of development have likewise not been vetted for any correspondence to reality other than anecdote, which puts both of them in the same category as the jhanas.

What the jhanas, Montessori and Kubler-Ross all have in common is a framework onto which those teaching and those experiencing the teaching can channel their energies into handling one thing at a time. Enough people can be convinced that Kubler-Ross's framework is "true" that they can channel their emotional energy into handling that one particular experience, be in anger or denial or bargaining. Enough children succeed and even thrive under Montessori's program (mostly, I suspect, due to the intensely attentive nature of the adults conducting the program) that parents can be convinced it's "true" and works for all children. And the jhanas are likewise useful enough that when the student experiences something like one the teacher can say, "Ah, that's close to a first-level jhana, here's what you can expect," and the student will search for those experiences and filter out everything else until the teacher says, "Now here's what you should look out for the second jhana..." and, even if the student has been experiencing those phenomena for some time, now that experience gets attention and the student starts to level up.
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While the mainstream press is still still touting mindfulness as an essential tool for your kit, there's been a very welcome wave of pushback that's dedicated to letting much of the air out of the mindfulness convoy's tires.

The loudest voices are those that claim that mindfulness strips the Buddhist tradition of mindfulness of its ethical foundations, simply adapting mindfulness as a way of calming the employees, making them more efficientr employees, and essentially co-opting what has been an essential spiritual practice into a tool of avarice.

But I suspect the recent spate of "it doesn't work" / "it's not cost effective" / "the science isn't there" articles is actually led by a counter-concern: mindfulness is most attractive to the most energetic of employees, the ones who are constantly sparking off new ideas and new projects. The biggest fear our corporate masters have is that sati will translate, as the Buddhists contend it does, into karuna: that is, that mindfulness will lead those who practice it best into the realization that most capitalism is bullshit.

The pro-mindfullness folks want employees to have just enough mindfulness to be more diligent and detail-oriented at their work, but they're deathly afraid that in the process their employees will develop compassion and an awareness of the transience of all things, and ultimately leae their corporate positions for something more fulfilling. The threat of actual mindfulness to the Gordon Geckos of the world is not to be understated.
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I've spoken often of my love for *Illuminatus!*, the book that I discovered at 13 that made me realize life was worth living, if only because life was ridiculous and therefore not too worthy of angsting over. One of the best lessons from that book is Korzybski's "The Map Is Not The Territory." Robert Anton Wilson (pbuh) taught us all just how true that was with examples that, while silly, were also so plausible that they couldn't help but illuminate.

It's also possible to confuse the *mapper* with the territory. In many styles of meditation, what we seek is to understand how we shape the world, how the world shapes us, and to pick and choose from the many possible shifting shapes we may adopt to better fit the world around us. When we succumb to fatalism, when we insist there's no changing "fate's design," we are confusing the territory with ourselves.

Meditation taxonomy calls this "experiential fusion." The purpose of many meditations, some explicitly but almost all of them implicitly, is to separate the map-*maker* from the territory, to make us aware that we are not mere subjects of nature but agents in our own right, agents within our own skin, able to pre-decide how we'll react to stresses and disasters.

It is also okay to allow this fusion at times. Watching a movie or reading a book, it's acceptable to let this fusion happen, to become one with the storytelling, to feel it deeply. We've developed incredible cognitive vocabularies for maintaining a sense of self and other while deeply identifying with others, and learning this is part of the basis of compassion-based meditations. Strengthening that reflex, however, in a conscious and vital way, is as important as strengthening one's muscles and bones for the long haul that is life.

When we separate who we are from the world enough to make choices, then we start to exercise the only real form of free will we actually possess.
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I really have to get back into meditation. It's been too long, and while I've been able to keep up the workout and yoga, meditation has fallen by the wayside. Which is a pity because I've recently read a fascinating meta-study on the kinds of meditation. It seems there are five kinds of meditation, and when I remember to practice them, I've only been practicing two of them.

There is attentional meditation, in which the attention is brought back to a single point. Open-monitoring attentional meditation is Zazen, the most common of Zen practices, and involves not concentrating on any single thing, but maintaining a specific state of mind, a state in which awareness of metacognitive states is paramount, and maintaining that state is the point of the practice. And it is practice, and it takes effort.

On the other hand, there's cultivation of attention, which is expanding one's power to concentrate on a single subject with power. In the Greek and Roman traditions, this is pneuma, and is the practice most recommended by the Stoics. It's a difficult practice, and it involves expanding one's power to accomplish one's goals without invoking burnout.

These attentional meditations exist to strengthen your own self-awareness, and to help you regulate your reactions to events. It's not meant to suppress emotions, but instead to help you cultivate the best emotions, the most joyous emotions.

Stoicism also has a values meditation, called the premeditatio malorum, in which you think about how you will react if something horrible happens-- the house burns down, a family member dies, you lose a limb, or worse. The idea is to both concentrate the mind on enjoying what you have now, and telling others how much you appreciate them, and planning in the theater of the mind for how to react most effectively to disaster, such that you can regain equilibrium quickly.

Theravadan loving-kindness meditation (the kind practiced by the Dalai Lama) is surprisingly enough in the same family of values meditations. These are considered constructive meditations, in that your role is to contemplate how you fit into the world, and how best to help those around you. Both have the same basic premise, though: "You were not put on this Earth to procrastinate."

The last is deconstructive. The purpose of this, which often happens as a side-effect of attentional meditations as well, is to help you understand how your own mind works. Dzogchen's been getting a lot of attention recently, and it's main purpose is to emphasize the Buddhist insight that there is no "I" in each of us, no little man inside our head who is "me" in a concrete, atomic sense; you are a mass of impulses, emotions, moods, biochemistries, and sensations, all vaguely moving in the same direction.

There's a lot more to say about this paper. But I'll leave it at this for now.
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Meditation isn't relaxing. It's work. There's a reason we call it the practice of meditation. Like all practices, it's hard, it requires reflection at the end of the session to know what went wrong, what went right, and what your goals are.

The purpose of meditation, for me, is to cultivate two characteristics that seem at odds, but are completely complementary: a sense of serenity, and a force of will. This is a traditional silent zazen sort of meditation, but unlike the full Zen tradition, it stops there: it's an exercise in mindfulness, in building up an ability that one already has, just as one already has the ability to do one push-up, but most of us can't do fifty.

And it takes a while to even reach the stage where you can recognize, and dismiss, the chattering interruptions of your busy mind. That's okay: at the beginning of any practice, you're not bad at it, you're just beginning. If you give up, then we can safely say you're lazy.

But the lazy do not meditate.

Anyway, I'm pleased to have successfully managed five days in a row without once saying, "Not today, I'm too busy." It's only fifteen minutes.
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Twelve minutes seems to be an odd place in the Zazen routine. As I meditate, I start to wonder when that damn doan chime (meditation alarm) is ever going to go off, and when it does I stop and think to myself, "Is that it?"

Next week, I'll up the rate to 15 minutes.

I don't think I'm doing it right. Yeah, I sit still and alternate between doing heavy visualizations and trying to do traditional zazen, but there's too much clutter in my head, too many characters and projects and tasks and distractions. Getting them to shut up is hard work.

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