"Legalized Polyamory"

[elfs]

In National Review, the unofficial organ of Catholic American conservatism and the flagship outlet of William F. Buckley, Stanley Kurtz wrings his hands at an impending Canandian court case that would recognize familial rights to three people (two women and one man) with respect to a child.

Legalized polyamory means still another radical increase in the difficulties of children. And polyamorists are already organized and ready to take advantage of any opening in the law.
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The logic of gay marriage leads inexorably to the end of marriage, and the creation in its place of an infinitely flexible series of contracts. Monogamous marriage cannot function if it is just one of many social arrangement. Marriage as an institution depends for its successful functioning upon the support and encouragement that the ethos of monogamy receives from society as a whole. If anything can be called a marriage -- including group marriage -- then the ethos of monogamy that keeps families together will have been broken, and the social reinforcement that is the essence of marriage itself will be gone. Again, it is children who will pay the price.

Read the rest at Heather has 3 Parents.

Agree or disagree with Kurtz, it's important to keep track of what he and people like him are saying as oppositional arguments to the matter.

Comments

[aprivatefox.livejournal.com]

Point granted; I'll certainly agree that for the vast majority of people, monogamy is and should be a reasonable default.

The idea Kurtz seems to be ignoring (quite possibly deliberately), and what I meant by "social inertia" is this: Monogamy is not a new thing. It's not a delicate thing, really - even when people break from lifelong monogamy in our culture, the pattern of serial monogamy takes its place.

I didn't really see the stance that children will be hurt as being the critical assertion of the article; to my reading, it looked like his stance was slightly more "slippery slope." I read the article's fundamental stance as one of protecting marriage: that to allow any form of familiy with more than two members, one of each sex, is an irrevocably damaging blow to the stability of monogamous heterosexual relationships as a whole. I think, honestly, that he'd have more of a place to debate from, had he been arguing the effect on children - but it reads to me like he's arguing from a point of social order, and that argument is flawed.