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"Just boy stuff" or "Budding sociopath"?
Date: 2005-07-14 12:03 am (UTC)Think about it...I doubt that you, as a boy, tortured small creatures for fun. I know that neither my husband nor my father did so, nor does my son show anything but pity for things that are hurting. In fact, the only men I know who claimed to enjoy hurting things as children were quite creepy as adults, too.
Not sure where I was going with this...just have a pet peeve for seeing deviant behaviour dismissed as 'being a boy'. Boys aren't any more cruel and thoughtless by nature than girls are, and such activities aren't acceptable for them, either. I'd also keep a really close eye out...as has been stated by others, this is a great big red warning flag. This behaviour usually progresses up to things like mice and squirrels, cats and dogs, and sometimes even humans. A lot of times, the person takes up hunting or finds some other socially acceptable ways to express their desire to cause pain and suffering, and just turn into your everyday, ordinary asshole who kicks the dog, spanks the kids, and maybe knocks the wife around a bit, but sometimes they move right on to torturing and killing humans instead. The best thing you could possibly do for the kid is watch him, an the instant he moves up to a small animal, call both the SPCA and your local Child Protective Services...that'd get him in counciling, and maybe he could be helped, and in the meantime, I wouldn't let your girls be alone with the him.
Best wishes,
Velvet