Elf Sternberg

A term that's becoming popular that I find way preferable is RACK--Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Safe and sane are simply too subjective. And there's something...condescending about it, too. Why should anyone have the right to tell me I can't do what I want because it's not 'safe'. Lots of things aren't safe, and people do them every day. But 'risk aware', yeah, I can go for that. As long as you're aware of the possible consequences of your actions, and as long as they don't affect anyone who's not consenting to be affected, then anything goes, IMO.

Velvet