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This afternoon, sparked by a television show (yeah, this one, what did you expect?) I started thinking back on the training I had received as a member of the Franklin Covey dayplanner cult. CompuServe was big on this; we received three hours a year of "refresher" training in how to use the big, bulky thing, which I carried with me everywhere. These days I'm down to a David Allen project list and a calendar, blessed be, on a Palm V that fits in my pocket.

But sometimes, Allen recommends that you do the Covey thing-- not as often as Covey would like, which is every week, every day if you can-- but once every couple of months, one should step back from the immediate task of Getting Things Done and consider one's objectives, one's goals and, in the Covey terminology, one's roles.

I dug up my old list and there, at the top, was father, then husband, employee, writer, programmer, and adviser. I've had to drop the bottom one, for I no longer hand out unsolicited advice on agony blogs and newsgroups. There simply is not time enough.

As I was thinking about this list of roles, the "who am I" question came up and then I realized I had another role: blogger. And then it clicked: I'm Elf Fucking Sternberg, I've been on the Internet for seventeen years, which is longer than some of my readers have been alive, and I am a brand.

But what is the Elf Sternberg brand about? What do you get for brand loyalty? This is the question I must figure out. How do I build brand integrity into the name "Elf Sternberg"? Is it a multiple of brands: is there one about a secularist father trying to raise children, another about the erstwhile programmer, another about the relentless writer, another about the wine and anime and chocolate and cooking fanatic? Do they need separate identities? What are the deliverables for each, and how do I improve the quality of those deliverables?

This is something I will probably be spending some energy thinking about, because I perceive that it is valuable to me. I have only a short time on this Earth, my transhumanist optimism notwithstanding, and I need to do something with it.

As a short interim, I really, really wish that LiveJournal had tagging. "This post is about" and a collection of one-word tags that would let people filter. "Show me all of Elf's posts about anime" or "Show me all of Elf's posts about fatherhood" would totally rock! as a feature.

Date: 2005-03-18 04:02 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] duskwuff.livejournal.com
As a short interim, I really, really wish that LiveJournal had tagging.

Memories?

Date: 2005-03-18 04:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elfs.livejournal.com
That's not really the same thing; it doesn't allow for a social structure to emerge organically from individual posts to one's own blogs. The other alternative is communities, but that doesn't allow you to sustain the ideas as your own-- they're tagged with your name, but they belong to the community. I want ideas that belong to me, but are tagged with a communal identity.

Date: 2005-03-18 04:39 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] valarltd.livejournal.com
And it's a brand I've been very fond of for about 14 of those years.

Date: 2005-03-18 04:45 am (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
Dont forget Elf Sternberg the sex fiend ;)
-D

You are indeed!

Date: 2005-03-18 06:29 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mothball-07.livejournal.com
When j5nn5r and I were first wooing, about two weeks before our first in-person date was scheduled, we were chatting about Thanksgiving plans one day. He mentioned your family, and how you fit into his family.

Some wheels started churning and a little later I said "Would that be Elf Sternberg?! THE Elf Sternberg?"

I decided I was *definitely* in over my head, but that maybe that wasn't such a bad thing. ;)

So yeah - you have branding.

Congratulations!

Date: 2005-03-18 07:25 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] rkda.livejournal.com
You have finally discovered something about yourself that a great many of your admirers and avid readers have known about you, and have been trying to tell you for several years now. "Elf Sternberg" is a brand name and has a fairly substantial presence in several spheres of influence. I don't in the least, envy you the task of figuring out what to do with that position, but I for one am quite happy to see you finally recognize it.

I hope that you have some brilliant inspiration and find a way to create great and wonderful things for yourself, your family, and your friends out of your newly discovered situation. You have done a great deal to provide enjoyment for others with your writings and your amazing openness and honesty in your blog. I occasionally find myself inspired, by your musings, to go off and do interesting things I would not have attempted before.

Thank you again, and best wishes for you and your family =))

Date: 2005-03-18 07:52 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] whipartist.livejournal.com
A silly question would be, why aren't you ElfSternberg.com ?

I'm half tempted to buy it for you and squat on it until you decide it's a good idea. :-)

Date: 2005-03-18 01:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] slfisher.livejournal.com
If you're not 'advisor' any more I guess I shouldn't tell you that partly because of your posts, I've bought the David Allen books.

Date: 2005-03-18 03:18 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] lucky-otter.livejournal.com
I, too, really wish that Livejournal had tagging. In particular, I wish it was possible to subscribe to a subset of tags of someone's journal. This would let people more easily implement the voluntary filters that I so often see people polling for. Instead of having to ask and ask people what filters they want to be on, they could just subscribe themselves.

Uncle Elf Reviews Everything!

Date: 2005-03-18 05:08 pm (UTC)
From: (Anonymous)
I've noticed quite a parallel between Elf's reviewing and this other guy's reviewing ( http://www.hatrack.com/osc/reviews/everything/ ).

If you read through a few, the similarities are eerie; as is the scaling of the same.

--Gon

Date: 2005-03-18 07:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] intrepid-reason.livejournal.com
"I really, really wish that LiveJournal had tagging." You could suggest it to the Powers That Be at LJ.

You wanted tagging, good sir?

Date: 2005-03-18 07:31 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] genkitty.livejournal.com
Check out http://www.technorati.com/ -- Tagging for everything you do.

Also, while I'm here... http://en.wikalong.org/index.cgi?HomePage and http://del.icio.us/ should give you some new toys to play with ^_^

And yes, you're a brand name. My newest sweetie doubleblinked quite a few times and stuttered when he discovered that I know you. (Not that you likely remember me, though how many cleavages /have/ you thrown chocolate into at furry cons? ^_- )
From: [identity profile] wolfwings.livejournal.com
This is the definitive FAQ question on suggestions.

A suggestion like this one might be akward however, as it would create 'yet another database' and the databases that actually run LJ are something they're very cautious about adding to the complexity of, mostly because it was the bottleneck for the entire site until they rebuilt things into a new structure and re-coded numerous things to work well with said new structure.

But, the worst they can do is say 'sorry, no time for the coders to work on this' as they have to a couple of my suggestions I sent in, and kick it back into the queue to be re-examined again later.
From: [identity profile] elfs.livejournal.com
I don't think it would "create a new database," just a new field with an explicit purpose. It would then be up to other processes, perhaps those with some intimate view of the main database, perhaps not necessary (it doesn't seem to be necessary for google to index LJ, after all), to make the connection between "articles tagged with X".

Date: 2005-03-21 03:10 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elfs.livejournal.com
Why, thank you! That's very kind!

Re: You are indeed!

Date: 2005-03-21 03:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elfs.livejournal.com
Gawrsh. Shucks, ma'am.

I guess the question is, now that I've grown up and gotten, well, real, what do I do with this brand? I'm kinda thinking around the problem, trying to see if it fits right.

In some ways, the question is, "How do I make a living at being Elf Sternberg?" I like being a programmer and facing the interesting problems at work, but sometimes I wonder what else I could do.

Date: 2005-03-21 03:17 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] elfs.livejournal.com
Good point. I suppose it's because I feel like I've hung up my "sex adviser" hat, don't hang out in soc.sexuality.general or [livejournal.com profile] sextips much anymore. I do talk about what works for me, so maybe that's not so different.

Date: 2005-03-22 08:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] quaryn-dk.livejournal.com
It looks like they're working on it. You can vote in this poll (http://www.livejournal.com/news/2005-03-21-poll.bml) to ask them to focus on tags. If there aren't any features that are otherwise overwhelmingly cool to me, I'll vote for tags for your sake. :)

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