Parenting in the morning...
Nov. 23rd, 2010 09:06 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
elfsMark Oppenheimer worries about helicopter parenting:
Oppenheimer makes a claim that "over-controlling parents are just acting out their own best hunches, or, more likely, their own failed fantasies." If that's so then Storm is living out mine: she's actually popular, something neither Omaha or I ever acheived. And yet what we adults are aware of, more than anything else, is that her happiness is still relative, difficult, and worth thinking about.
I think these kinds of parents are striving to rule out eccentricity. Nobody, after all, is striving to engineer a lovable nerd, or a spacey dreamer, or an obsessive collector.I dunno, I would much perfer a spacey dreamer or loveable nerd to the prototypical narrow-niched ordinary "teenagers" that seem to haunt the middle and high schools in my district.
Oppenheimer makes a claim that "over-controlling parents are just acting out their own best hunches, or, more likely, their own failed fantasies." If that's so then Storm is living out mine: she's actually popular, something neither Omaha or I ever acheived. And yet what we adults are aware of, more than anything else, is that her happiness is still relative, difficult, and worth thinking about.
