Elf Sternberg

Well, the name on the card wouldn't have told them anything. It's my name, which is gender neutral. But most places we go to, if there is a miscommunication about the card, will come back and address the *table*, not a particular person, if they don't know who gave the card to them in the first place. That was what was unprofessional. That and she immediately addressed me as "hon" when she turned to me. :P