Elf Sternberg

Because there are so many ancient and deep-seated taboos concerning the rectum, one might think that exploring, releasing & transcending those taboos would definitely be an increased-intimacy activity. What is seen in most porn, however, seems almost guaranteed to make sure women will not like anal sex play.

Anal sex as portrayed in porn is not something I would want to do with anyone, either. Given the emotional loading of the area, I doubt it will ever really be common.

I find bukkake to to be aesthetically unappealing - no interest at all - just don't get it. I doubt this could become common to a greater extent than multiple-partner sex, as the one seems to require the other.

As for shaving, I don't know if it is becoming normal, but I can hope. I am an avid cunnilinguan(?) and I find the smoothness very pleasant. I don't mind not getting hairs stuck in my throat, either.

Bottom line, I can only hope that porn can make us more honest about the mechanics and our interests/preferences, without fooling people into having very bad times instead of the fun they wanted.